Celebrate Life - A Mother's Message To Her Children

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By UrsulaRose

Celebrating 100 Hub Articles on HubPages!

To celebrate writing my 100th Hub Article on HubPages, I thought that I would do something quite different to what I would normally write about.

This is a celebration of my newfound vocation as a part-time Hub Article Author/Writer.

This is also a celebration of life and it is through writing this particular celebratory hub article that I have found a means for me as a mother to be able to write down a few heartfelt messages to my three children in the hope that they will read it someday and hopefully (fingers crossed) will heed my motherly advice as they progress forward on their own life's journey.

A friend emailed me a YouTube link to a Rick Springfield song called "Celebrate Youth" that he released in the mid-80's (back in the days when I was a love-struck teenager) and even before I clicked on that link, I was belting out the lyrics to the song as I was such a Rick Springfield fan (you could say that I still am).

Even before the video had a chance to play I was visualising the video, trying to jog an otherwise 'brain-fogged' memory and I could see him in a children's playground dressed all in black wearing a long black coat and he had a red tie or scarf or badge or flower, something red on him which really stood out as the rest of the surroundings was shot in black and white.

Okay, it is time to admit that as a love-struck teenager I would have watched and sung that song at least a gawdzillion times when it was released so no wonder I had such great memory recall!

Over the next week or so I found myself singing the words to this song over and over again..

It is this song (thanks Rick) that is the real inspiration behind me writing this extra special hub article, celebrating youth and celebrating life. The song's lyrics are something to behold.

Check out the video of Rick Springfield's Celebrate Youth for yourself down below. EDIT: The YouTube video has had the embed feature disabled so I am unable to get it to play from this hubpage (bummer!!!) so if you are really interested in checking it out then search for Rick Springfield Celebrate Youth in the Youtube search box and look for a B&W picture of Rick wearing a red scarf.


I dedicate my 100th Hub Article to three rather special individuals who give me reason to Celebrate Youth and Celebrate Life everyday - my son and my two daughters!


Celebrate Life - A Mother's Message To Her Children
Celebrate Life - A Mother's Message To Her Children

A Mother's Message To Her Children - Celebrate Youth!


To My Three Children,

I hope that you will make the time to read this particular hub article of mine and take note of what your mum has to say to all of you.

All I ask from you three is that you will do your very best to heed my advice.

Love Always, Mum.


Celebrate Life - You only get one chance at life so do not ever take it for granted.


A person will get only what they seek so choose want you want carefully.

Know what it is that you like and what it is that you do not like.

Be critical about what you can do well and what you cannot do well.

Choose a career or lifestyle that truly interests you and work hard to make it a success but also remember to have fun in what you do.

Be honest with yourself and with other people and help yourself and others if and when you can.

Only depend on yourself to make your life easy and/or happy not others and especially do not let yourself become dependant on others.

Be strong and decisive but remain sensitive to yours and other people's feelings and emotions.

Regard your family and the idea of family as the basis for your security, support and love.

Understand who it is that you are and what it is that you want to get out of your life before sharing that life with someone else.

When you are ready to enter into a relationship with someone else make sure that the person is worthy of everything that you are physically and mentally.

Strive to achieve all that you want and find happiness in everything that you do.

Do not forget that when things go wrong that you have permission to laugh at your mistakes and in doing so you will learn from them.

Love with your entire being and love with an uninhibited soul. Be TRUE to yourself.

Do not be afraid to love someone totally and completely because love is the most fulfilling and beautiful feeling in the world.

Do not be afraid that you will get hurt or that the person you love will not love you because there is a risk in everything that you do and the rewards are never so great as what love can bring you.

Some people will be your friend because of whom you know, or because of your position, or because of the way you look, or because of your possessions but the only real friends are the people who will be your friends because they like you for how you are on the inside so try to choose your friends carefully and make sure that they are worthy of you.

I hope that you will have as much confidence in yourself as I have in you.

Never be afraid to have dreams and always try to make your dreams a reality.

The freer you are with your emotions and feelings the more you will be able to give and receive love.

Just remember that when you need someone to talk to I hope you will talk to me and when you need someone to laugh with I hope you will laugh with me and when you need someone to advise you I hope you will ask me and when you need someone to help you I hope that you will let me help you.


Make a triumph of every aspect of your life.


Put in the effort and reap the rewards.


Life will throw you curve-balls from time to time, deal with it and get on with living.


Finally, just remember that on those odd times when you think that you do not like or even possibly hate your mother, that your mother will always love you (mum also has times when you are not 'flavour of the month' with her either).


Celebrate Life - A Mother's Message To Her Children

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 2 weeks ago

Thank you Don. I feel your cyber-embrace in your emotive comment. :-)

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DON BALDERAS Level 2 Commenter 2 weeks ago

I would love to embrace you for the wisdom you shared. Thank you Mother.

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 4 months ago

The 'mother-in-me' is very grateful that you enjoyed reading my hub article enough to leave a lovely message Jason.

I look forward to spending time reading yours. :-)

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Jason-Stacey 4 months ago

Children are like the creepers and small plants whose branches i.e.mind and heart are soft grasping to what ever around good or bad. So an extra care need to be taken and such and good advice on Hubpages is really appreciatory. My hats off to the Mother in you.

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 5 months ago

Thanks-a-bunch MsDora for stopping by to make time to read my hub article and leaving such a delightful comment.

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MsDora Level 7 Commenter 5 months ago

This is a great hub, and a beautiful way to celebrate your 100th. I hope with you that your children heed your advice and fulfill their life's purpose. Good writer, good mom.

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 5 months ago

Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to leave a comment Bernard. Your poem is wonderfully full of wise words that every one of us can heed the advice of.

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sunkentreasure Level 6 Commenter 6 months ago

SECRETS OF LIFE By BERNARD LEVINE

Look for the beauty

in everything you see.

Walk in peace

showing kindness

everywhere.

The secrets of success

are motivation

and dedication

Happiness is

what you make happen

for yourself.

Caring is

going to the ends of the world

for a stranger.

Be useful with your life.

Whatever you are doing

put your whole

being into it 100%

Loving is

pleasing your loved one everyday

in a 1000 different ways.

Control your mind

you are its master

Be in control.

Live your life

without hurting or

destroying.

Believe in yourself.

Have respect for yourself.

Walk through life

always with a song.

© Bernard Levine

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 7 months ago

Great to read your comments Andycool and thank you for your kind-hearted words.

Writing and Publishing 100 hub articles is something to celebrate and in doing so I am only too happy to be able to share some 'words of wisdom' with you all out there in cyber-land.

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andycool 7 months ago

Congrats UrsulaRose for achieving the milestone of publishing 100 hubs here on HubPages! This is an awesome hub and I will read it again and again to change my life... and yes we all should celebrate life - because we only get one chance at life so we should not ever take it for granted! I've bookmarked this hub... thanks for sharing!

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 7 months ago

Thanks for commenting katyzzz. It is not a matter of doing things right or wrong trust me.

I am just a mum who is finally getting to show my children who the 'real me' is because they only know me as always being stressed, fatigued, frustrated, sick and tired of being sick and tired of being in constant pain day in, day out.

Through various means (mainly alternative/complimentary methods) I have been able to show my children that their mother really is quite a nice and friendly person to be around, especially now that I am conquering those awful pain demons and have a much more optimistic and positive outlook on life ... thanks Reiki, Energy Healing and Transpersonal Art Therapy I owe you big time.

It was your use of beautiful colours that drew me in to your amazing hubs. One day I will master computer art too!

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katyzzz Level 4 Commenter 7 months ago

UrsulaRose, what a lovely name and what a lovely mum, I too have three children who (unfortunately neglect me. I guess I must have done something wrong.

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UrsulaRose Hub Author 7 months ago

Your lovely commentry is very much appreciated Movie Master.

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Movie Master Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

Hello Ursula, this is a wonderful message to your children full of good advice.

I am sure they are very proud of a very special mother.

Thank you for sharing.

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